What would you do when you are put in a given situation?
1. You've known each other for quite a long time. She's really sweet and nice and befriended you for who you are and who you're not. Then time flies. Both of you made new friends, you made sure you kept the old ones because old is always gold. But she became like those new friends she made, therefore she no longer is the person that you've known all these while.
Question: what would you do?
2. You have a friend that are friends with you because you have something to offer, or so people say. You didn't bother to listen because you refuse to believe that she is what people say she is and you do not believe in judging a person at the first instance. You hung out, do things together, only to find out that she really is that person that people (her friends) talk about. She bitches about you, she says things that aren't real, basically, she has proven the people & me right.
Question: what would you do?
3. A friend of yours of almost 10 years got into a relationship with a girl. Your friend is real nice, has a nice family that are close with you and you treat him just like your brother. But when he got into a relationship with this girl, he turned out to be that kind of friend who will only call you when he needs something or has trouble/problems to share.
Question: what would you do?
4. You know this girl who is seriously nice, sweet and innocent, at least, at the very beginning of your friendship with her. She is that kind of a girl that is impossible for you not to be friends with once you've spoken to her due to the fact that she's brilliant and witty, along with the other characteristics. One day, she befriended a person that you seriously don't like. Oh wait, a person that many others don't like. After awhile, to your nightmare, she turns into that person that you & others despise. She chooses her time as and when she wants to be friendly and nice or go on the other extreme which is to act bitter as ice, buat buat malas nak tegur and arrogant. But in the virtual world, she praises you, she calls you not by your name but by many wonderful things that you wanna hear, being that nice person she is. You're confused. Should you be nice all the time or just ignore this whole thing.
Question: what would you do?
5. Your sister once told you that one of your friend is someone whom you should watch out. She warned you to be careful but you literally ignored what your sister said because you knew your friend better and that she's wonderful. You introduced her to your friends and she became friends with your friends and in fact was emotionally involved with one of your friends. Something then happened, you both were not talking, but you got it all settled after awhile. Things went back to square one. You were friends all over again. Thank God. But suddenly, she refused to talk to you for no apparent reason, making faces and spreading news about you, simply hating you for god knows why. You are clueless, thought of going up to her and ask her what's wrong and have every intention to clear things up but you were told by her very own friends to not do so because it will be pointless. So yeah, you let go, you got over it and you moved on. You felt that it's okay to not have a friend like her and came to the conclusion that maybe you are both not meant to be friends. (I should have just listened to my of six years younger sister. pfft. haha)
Question: what would you do?
6. This girl you know were friends with you since high school. You have absolutely nothing to dislike about her, you neither talk nor think about her when she started to bitch the hell out of you and influence many others to do the same thing.
Question: what would you do?
7. You have a best friend who is embarrassed that she is friends with you but in reality, you both are best friends. When asked, she denies that you both are not even friends.
Question: what would you do?
8. You are a seasonal friend, meaning, this summer, it's all about you and you and you. Once she found a new fancy, you're so out of season. But when it's all summer again, you're all that friend again.
Question: what would you do?
Seriously man, life is full of drama, especially when you don't ask for it. For all you know when you're sitting down and doing nothing, someone is bickering about you. Stop this high school musical. We're all friggin adults. There's more to life than this shhh. Wake up.
5 comments:
list-ful of drama you got there girrll. hihi. but you, i, we, all of us, tough chicks kan, so no hall. WAT TATT TAUUU !! hihihi. love you zazanureeeee.
memang buat tak tau la ni. haha. i just want these people to know that im aware. thats it. haha. thanks emsieeeee! im so used to tolerating to high school maturity so called adults ni. lol. love you more xxx
my rule on friendship: if they have got nothing to offer me (contohnya kebaikan or keikhlasan) just ignore/cut the friendship terus. i did that to a few people and it has made me so much happier. better to not be friends & total strangers daripada asyik sakit hati sahaja. :P
sorry, this topic is just close to heart -_-
thanks azreen. i couldnt agree more.
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